Self-empowerment during heartbreak after a breakup or divorce

The "right" man at the wrong time is the wrong man.

It’s okay to grieve and mourn and to allow yourself to feel the heartbreak and the sadness. We must feel in order to heal. And also, keep in mind that the "right" man at the wrong time is the wrong man. For right now, for the present moment, he is the wrong man for you in this time.

Mourning the loss of the wrong man is totally different than mourning the loss of the love of your life. Mourn the loss of the love and the relationship that you had. And don't mourn the love of your life that is yet to come. Because you haven't lost it yet.


Remember not to pile all of your hopes and dreams for the future on the ship that left the harbor. Those are yours. Those hopes and dreams are YOURS. They belong to you and no one can take them from you; they're not lost.

When you bring your hopes, dreams, and expectations for the future back and you reclaim ownership of them--you take your power back.

Living from this place of internal ownership and personal power makes it much easier not to live from other people's expectations or opinions. It makes it much easier to live from a place of sovereignty and grounded-ness.

It makes it much easier to heal from the heartbreak you’re feeling right now. Many times we are not just grieving the loss of love but the loss of our hopes and dreams for the future.


You can be empowered even in your heartbreak by reclaiming ownership of any hopes, dreams, and the responsibility of the fulfillment of them from the shoulders of the man you broke up with.

There’s no need to mourn what has not been lost.

And there’s no need to give away what belongs to you as this will keep you in victimhood.


There’s no need to mourn what has not been lost


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